In a world where social media perfection often masks the struggles of real life, The Mommy Club NBO introduces a refreshing new voice, one that’s grounded, introspective, and fiercely authentic.
That voice belongs to Ofentse Tsipa, a South African life coach, mom of two, and a member of hit reality series that follows Nairobi’s most dynamic and ambitious mothers.
Her life is a wild blend of intentional living, deep emotional work, and sparkle. And now, she’s letting us in on it all in the Showmax reality show.
In a conversation with Showmax, Ofentse opened up about her unique approach to motherhood, what it means to parent in a multicultural household, and why her postpartum experience was anything but picture-perfect.
Ofentse Tsipa’s family dynamics and unique parenting style
Born to a mother who endured multiple miscarriages before her birth, Ofentse’s name, meaning “Christ has conquered”, captures a spirit of resilience that continues to define her life.
Now based in Kenya, Ofentse is balancing her roles as a wife to a Dutch partner, a mother, a transformational coach, and a student at USIU-Africa. Her day-to-day life, though filled with ambition, is rooted in mindfulness and meaningful connection.
When asked how her coaching work influences her parenting style, Ofentse shared that it has completely reshaped how she shows up as a mother. “The biggest shift for me has been learning to feel my feelings and to be fully present,” she explained.
That emotional awareness has allowed her to create a home environment where her children are not just seen, but deeply heard. She firmly rejects the outdated notion that children should be silent observers. Instead, she treats her kids as emotionally intelligent beings, mirrors who deserve respect, autonomy, and space to grow.
It’s a philosophy that’s especially important in a household like hers. Ofentse describes her family as “100% multicultural.” Her husband is Dutch with strong French influences, and she herself is South African with Tswana and Zulu roots.
Living in Kenya has added yet another layer to their family’s cultural identity, which she embraces fully. “We’re raising global citizens,” she said, adding that they celebrate Christmas the Dutch way, incorporate Zulu traditions, and adapt to the Kenyan rhythm of life.
As a coach and mom, Ofentse has had to unlearn a few things too, like the myth that good parenting equals control.
The role of the nannies
Ofentse is the first to admit that raising children takes a village, and in her case, that village includes two trusted nannies.
Her biggest advice for moms? “Hire for character, not skill.” She believes skills can be taught, especially if you’re a hands-on, intentional parent like she is. As a Montessori advocate, she trains her nannies to follow the child’s interests and let them lead the way.
Every Monday, she holds informal check-ins with her home team, making space to talk about what’s working and what’s not. It’s all about mutual respect, collaboration, and giving people autonomy, something many parents overlook.
Postpartum struggles
Despite the carefully curated image that can come with being on reality TV, Ofentse was quick to share the raw parts of her journey, particularly around postpartum recovery. “It’s something no one really prepares you for,” she admitted.
With her youngest just 10 months old, she’s still in the thick of it. “It was like walking into motherhood and realizing, ‘Wow, this is harder than I ever imagined.’”
Through The Mommy Club NBO, she’s been able to speak openly about those difficult early months, helping to normalize the less glamorous side of motherhood.
When asked what legacy she hopes to leave behind for her children, her answer was layered yet simple.
“I want them to see someone who helped others grow, someone who lived truthfully and with intention.” If one day her kids Google her name, she hopes they see not a flawless brand but a woman who was courageous enough to be herself, flaws and all.
A Star Is Born, But She’s Still Just Mom
With her brother Lemogang Tsipa gaining fame as Shaka Zulu on screen, and her own star rising in Nairobi, Ofentse is carving a legacy of her own, one grounded in healing, connection, and empowerment.
Catch her on The Mommy Club NBO, where behind the glam, she’s teaching us that the real magic of motherhood lies in showing up, authentically, every day.
